Couples Counselling

A couple contacted me for help with their relationship. They had been married for a number of years but now found themselves in a situation where the arguments were getting more heated, stubbornness was settling in, tolerance levels were at an all time low and love loss was starting to manifest. They'd already been to 'specialist’ couple's therapists previously but found themselves returning to the same behavioural patterns soon after the sessions had finished on both occasions.

I informed them of my couples counselling approach about seeing them individually and they agreed this would be their preferred approach.

What ensued was definitely not what they expected. Both quickly came to realise the behaviours they couldn't stand in each other were the one’s they actually hated within themselves. I helped them come to the realisation that it was NOT their surface attraction / personality traits that brought them together, but the subconscious trauma and emotional baggage they were both carrying. Each time we did a session, individually, they would actually release the yin or yang aspect of the same subconscious energetic pattern!

They also quickly discovered their behavioural patterns started well before they met each other - conditioned from early childhood and directly influenced by their parent's relationships (amongst other things). The wisdom they gained from each release managed to open their hearts enough to see each other in a new light, one with more respect, love and equality.

Suffice to say it did not take long for the arguments to die down and peace to prevail. What was more fulfilling was the deeper connection they were discovering after every session with each other and with themselves. The opening of their hearts without the fear of being hurt was taking its course.

To further enhance the changes, they asked me to review their house Feng Shui. I discovered a number of key factors that were contributing to their situation and proceeded with suggestions to remedy them. The difference in their home life rapidly evolved with both enjoying their home space, and each other, with a renewed and more positive energy.

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